The short version. Pick one recurring thing and go twice before you judge it. The easiest starts are the free Thursday feeding group at St. Charles (1 to 3 p.m.) and Baby Story Time on Wednesday mornings. For a closed group that gets to know you, look at the six-week Newly Postpartum Circle.
The week at a glance
| Day | What | Time |
|---|---|---|
| Monday | Baby Story Time, Redmond Library. La Leche League on the second Monday, Bend | 10:30 a.m. and 5:30 p.m. |
| Tuesday | Toddler Story Time, Redmond Library | 10:30 a.m. |
| Wednesday | Baby Story Time, Central Library | 10:30 a.m. |
| Thursday | Toddler Story Time, Central Library. Mommy and Me group, St. Charles Bend | 10:30 a.m. and 1 to 3 p.m. |
| Weekend | Family story times at some branches. Walks and events | Varies |
The parenting hub shows this week with today highlighted.
Which kind of group fits you?
- You want people who get it right now: a closed series like the Newly Postpartum Circle.
- Feeding is most of your day: the Thursday group or La Leche League.
- You want low stakes: story time. You can sit in the back and leave whenever.
- You hate sitting in circles: a walk. Talking is easier side by side with a stroller.
How to make it stick
The first visit often feels awkward because everyone seems to know each other already. They met two weeks ago. Go to the same thing twice, then once more. Say yes to the first coffee invitation, or be the one who asks.
If you live outside Bend
Redmond has its own baby and toddler story times, and the Sisters, La Pine and Sunriver libraries run family story times. A group ten minutes from home that you attend beats a perfect one in Bend that you skip.
When a group is not enough
Groups help with loneliness. They do not treat depression or anxiety. If you are struggling, start with postpartum support, which lists free nurses to call and a 24-hour hotline.
Common questions
Are these groups only for first-time parents?
No. Most welcome anyone with a baby in the right age range. Ask about bringing an older sibling, since some rooms are small.
Do I have to be breastfeeding to join a group?
Not for all of them. The Newly Postpartum Circle, story times and walks are for any parent. The Thursday group and La Leche League are built around feeding.
Are dads and partners welcome?
At story times, walks and many events, yes. Some groups are aimed at mothers or birthing parents, so ask the organizer first.
Is there anything in the evening or on weekends?
La Leche League meets on the second Monday evening of the month. Library branches also run family story times at varying times, so check the calendar for a weekend one.
What should I bring?
A diaper bag, whatever you need to feed the baby, and an extra layer. Nobody minds if you arrive late or leave early.
What if groups are not my thing?
Then skip them. A regular playground or coffee stop at the same time each week does the same job more quietly.
Where these facts come from
Last checked October 8, 2026. Classes fill, schedules shift and prices change, so confirm with the provider before you go. This is local information, not medical advice.
